@Chris Vining
Automakers are the ones warning trim shops not to resew seat covers with airbags. See these articles we've written specifically about Nissan:
Warning: Do Not Resew this Cover
No Ideal Solution to 'Do Not Resew' Tags
Nissan Answers 'Do Not Resew' Inquiries
Leaked: Nissan 'Do Not Resew' Policy
In 2012, SEMA attempted to answer the same questions you have -- but even they couldn't get to the bottom of it.
That said, the large aftermarket seat cover makers do certify their seats as airbag safe -- this is because they've spent a ton of money in research and development to reverse-engineer how automakers do it and match their capabilities. They also have DEEP pockets that allow them the opportunity to do so.
Most of these seat cover makers post their certifications -- done by third party research firms -- on their websites.
There are special sewing machines on the market -- such as the
Durkopp Adler 550-867 -- which is made specifically for seats with airbags. Unlike traditional sewing machines, the 550-867 monitors thread tension and stitch length to ensure they meet industry standards, and documents this in a database to shield operators from potential liability. The station’s goal, Durkopp Adler explains, is to execute a stitch that’s “strong enough to resist the stress under normal conditions and at the same time it must guarantee the unrestricted, accurate exit of the airbag.”
PFAFF has similar
specialty sewing machines. They're outfitted with computers that help calibrate stitch strength/tension, record that you made the stitch in a database and even issue a barcode label for you to stitch to the cover to prove that you made the stitch using the proper method.
There are also expensive airbag seam testing machines, which we have not seen on the market, but are often used by engineering firms. These conduct comparison tests between the thread combinations of the original and the new seams.
We do not know of any US laws regulating airbag seams, but there very well may be -- if not on a federal level, then maybe on a state level. You'd have to consult with a legal expert about that.
Regardless of whether or not a law exists, you can still be sued if you repair an airbag seam that does not deploy properly.
In the end, it's up to you.
Hope that helps.