1939 Ford 4 Door Sedan I commonly use the old bow pads to set the rear bow height. They should have gotten back to you with a proper bow height from Electron Top. Tacking the top on and making adjustments is the best thig you can do in the situation you are in.
I am not suprised you had 36 hours in fixing a tweaked top. When top arms break it is usually by force meanig multiple things have been bent and tweaked. Tops do not really "settle and bow" with out some sort of extreme force. The most important thing in a top frame is that everything is square and straight. Sometimes you will never get it to measure properly but it must operate properly with tension on the top.
I do not think 36 hours is an unacceptable number when it comes to fitting a top on a tweaked.